Tuesday, September 13, 2011
This is a cry for ADVICE!
I hate awkward situations...
and I hate mean people that create them even more.
So Justin and I set a date way back when...
We were so excited once we did so and it was even marked on my calendar as well as the one at the office for the wedding planner I work for...
Wedding binder has been made....Facebook statuses were posted.
Well back when we got engaged, one of the girls that's been dating a guy on the firedepartment that works with Justin was pretty fired up about us getting engaged before they did.
She eventually ended up deleting me on Facebook because she was so upset about this...
Well over the weekend, she got engaged...and added me back on Facebook.
Today her fiance told Justin that they have set a date for their wedding.
And it just so happens to be
ON THE SAME EXACT DAY WE WERE GETTING MARRIED!
Our day was perfect for us and it isn't a popular date or anything for any reason!
Why else would they choose November 17th also?
When Justin was talking to the other firefighter about this, the only thing the other guy had to say was "sounds like a personal problem to me".
What do we do now? Keep the date? And hope that maybe they move it? Keep the date and make the firefighters choose which wedding to go to? Or do we bite the bullet and change our so hard to plan wedding date? We really worked hard to see if it was a good fit for us. I was so incredibly excited about getting married in November.
It's so hard and it's really ruffled my feathers!
What would you do if this happened to you?
HELP BLOGGER FRIENDS!
Bless their hearts ;)
Posted by Amy at 6:27 PM