Wednesday, January 26, 2011

What nobody talks about.

Hi friends. 
I finally got my laptop back! It's so nice to have back and I have some photos to share with you but first, I've been pondering. 

It seems as if all of these gorgeous couples here on the blogsphere never get into arguments or fights. Am I alone
It seems as if Justin and I have just been so stressed and exhausted these days to where it almost feels as if the love has been, well, forgotten? Okay, maybe forgotten is a little harsh but I'm just ready for a nice date, just the two of us. No argument and just big hugs. Or maybe we are the only ones that get into petty arguments. It's just something to think about. It's just been a rough week on the both of us. He's been in class on the Island all week (he's having to drive over an hour just to get to class). I've been in class all week. It's that time of the month. (Yuck) and on top of all of that, life is happening. 

Well that's that, right? 
Any ways, here are those fabulous photos I promised you! Kristen and I had a little photography date. She wanted to work on her portfolio some, and I just wanted to take some fun stuff! Needless to say, there was a lot of love :)

That's all for now. 
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Love you all!


  1. I am not sure if I have ever commented, I have been following for a little while now.
    Beautiful pictures!
    & Yes I am pretty sure the bloggers argue with their significant other I just don't think people air that stuff to much. I have been arguing a lot with my hubby lately over dumb stuff, he is getting deployed and our nerves and emotions are out of whack! I wrote a entry the other day about being so mad I could smash his xbox, yeah that might make me a bad wifey but playing on the xbox for 6 hours straight makes him a bad hubby! :)
    Life has rough patches, you just got to make it work!

  2. hello lovely :) sorry I have been Mia :( ilve been sick all week...bummer! These pictures are absolutely are so talented lovely!

    In regards to the first part of your post...don't feel alone friend! Everyone has there bad days and there arguments. I did a post not too long ago called fighting long as u to fight right everything will be okay :) love you girl!!


  3. gorgeous photos, pretty lady! I'm with Lindsay...everyone has those days! I decide what arguments require my time and effort haha.

    so glad your laptop is back! hope the week keeps looking up! xoxo {av}

  4. Hey lady - don't feel bad about what people may or may not post on their blogs. Blogging only allows people into one teeny, well edited aspect of someone else's life. You have no idea what it really looks like within.

    Trust me, every relationship has its peaks and its valleys. I think the important thing is that you and Justin both want to work on it and continue to put effort in, and I know things will be smooth sailing again soon. :)

  5. Sorry its been rough lately- I can relate! No relationship is perfect and a blog is only 1/1,000,000th of what someones life consists of so most of us just blog about the good times, not the bad:-) Keep your chin up and just love...this too shall pass:-)

  6. I love these pictures! Beautiful!

    I think you should treat yourselves to a good old fashioned date night. A little smooching and lots of love. :)

    I hope all is well for you soon....and don't feel alone. Know that we all have little issues, even if we don't acknowledge them on the ol' blog. ;) Relationships are hard work!

  7. Oh my gosh, girl...I can't speak for anyone else, but we definitely fight!! We are both stubborn and we love to argue! Plus, I have the amazing trait called "take everything personally!"

    Love you!

  8. Oh girlfriend, I know exactly how you feel. Although I'm now single, I used to feel the same way when in a relationship and reading all the blogs about how everyone adores their other half so much and they never fight. Like Linds said, as long as you fight right, everything will be okay. Love you chica xoxo Hope you cheer up!

  9. I know how you feel believe me! The pictures are beautiful.


  10. Oh sista I feel ya. I dedicated a whole post to one particular argument with my husband to put an end to the "ideal" couple facade.

    The other day we got into an argument and didnt talk for almost a full day...then we facebook chatted and made up (we were in the same house in the rooms next to each other)

    it happens.

  11. First off I just wanted to say, I love you.
    You are such a great person Amy, and I really am glad that I met you the way I did! You have this amazing personality, everyone just loves you! I really do think of you as a best friend, only we don't talk on the phone about boys.. but we do text about 'nasty' girls! Hehe :)

    Honey, relationships are really hard. Hence the reason why I am being hesistant with this new guy. But I then have to think, it's not all a fairy tale, life kicks in.. and if i'm going to be scared now, then what am I going to do in the future when I'm looking to have kids! So I need to try it out again! And you just have to remember to make TIME for you and him, you both need to come together after all this school (or whatever) and do something great! Bring a little za-za-zu back into the relationship! Take a weekend trip somewhere, or go grab a blanket and look at the stars.. and HE needs to read THIS! lol But you guys will get through it, it's a ruff time right now.
    I will see you tonight!

  12. Every couple has their moments and fights. Just remember that anyone can make their life seem "perfect" on their blog. They don't post those nitty gritty details, most of the time anyway. But I can assure you that my boyfriend and I have had a few moments of ours. After all, life isn't perfect. It wouldn't be a learning experience if it was!


  13. your blog is lovely - so honest and pure!
    very refreshing :)

    i've been in a relationship for 6 years now and it's safe to say that we all go through ups and downs. but trust me, if you can make it through the rough patches it makes it all so worth it!

    we fight every now and then, some fights bigger than others, but we learn from our mistakes and we grow together - so don't get despondant just persevere... it's so worth it if you love each other!

    (nice and soppy hey? :) )


  14. There aren't any couples who don't fight believe me!!We are all different personalities and we can't agree in everything!!!So don't feel at all alone!!!WE AAAALL FIGHT!!!!!xexe


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